:)

Many people said that experience is the best teacher. Count me in to those people, please! But well, in some cases i disagree.

This writing was inspired by my junior in college. *yes piii its you:D* One day, he buzzed me to tell me that he was desperated. He is 20 years old by now, and never had a girlfriend ever.

Hahaha*cynically*, did you choose me to hear ur story just by coincidence?:p

He was so worried that he will become a single-man like always and run out of girls in one time. His friends made fun of this, his parents and his family always ask the same question to him like ‘ where’s your girlfriend?’ “when will you get married” and such a thing. He felt he was forced to have a girlfriend. Its owkay when at last the relationship was over, but at least its an experience and it will help a lot when one’s get married, people said.So, he was twice-worried for not havin any experience. “Will i become a good husband later? Is it true experience is very important?” He asked me.

Knock knock. Hey, it does remind me of something in the past:p Been there, done that*and pls be noted im not ashamed of this* And thats makin you such a genious to choose me to hear your story pi:p
Life is all about choices. And its my choice not to have anykind of personal relationship until im ready to get married. I know there were a lotsa issues, gossips about me because of this. Lesbian, Material girl *just like maddie’s song yeah!’, or what-so-ever, just name it. But i really dont care! I have my own reasons. Its my life anyway

This june 5th will be my 6month-versary wedding i still remember how were my friends when i said that i was getting married 6 months ago. Some of them were surprised, some of them were not believe it. Hahaha. I do still remember there were so many questions from people like “How come?” “Why him?”, “Are you crazy?” “how could you know he’s the one?” blablabla. In fact, some people thought i decided to get married because i was pregnant *i believe this come from those who not knowin me well*

I always thought that my future husband will be much older than me, a calm but typical announcer-person *up to date of top40 music, celeb’s gossips, minus the gayish thing pls:p* and not a doctor.
Surprise surprise, thats not my husband now He’s only one year older than me, and nooooooooooo *BIG NO*, he’s not a calm person, he’s talkative, MUCH MORE than me, trust me:p He’s not that into top 40 music and he doesnt gv a damn to celeb’s gossips:p And yeah, he’s a doctor too:p

“So, why him?”
Ahahaha, yes he’s not as the same as my thought about future husband, but he’s much better than that Its not because he’s a band-personnel, or photographer or obstetrician wannabe, nooooooo it is not. I dont care if he quit the band, the photography things or even the OG things, i still luv him anyway its not about what he is, its all about who he is

He is emotional, but in the same time he’s the only one who can handle my emotion Yes, he doesnt know if there’s band named armada exist*dooooh*:p but ask him about technology or else, he’s the best He’s bad-tempered, but in the same time he’s very gentle. He’s a very well-mixed person. He could be my anythin. He could be my friend, my partner-in crime, my father, my bestfriend, my lover, my teacher, my anythin. He’s my everythin:)

“How could you know he’s the one?”
Actually, i dont know and i dont care either:p All i know is i will be very sorry in my lifetime if i didnt marry him. He’s all i need:)

I dont have any experience, and im not sorry for that. Its true experience is the best teacher, but its not said that it has to be your own experience right? You can get many things from your friends’ experiences.

Stupid people fall at the same hole twice. Normal people fall once, but wont fall for the second times at the same hole. Smart people know there were other people fall at a hole, and try not to pass the hole. Let say im smart:p

Well, maybe im not that smart because i didnt have my own experience, but im not worry at all because im sure my husband will be happy to teach me how to luv or to be a good wife

So piiii *ehem, grandma mode ON* just sit back and enjoy ur life. Theres somebody for everybody for sure, you just have to wait. When its about the time, you’ll know, and just let it flow owkay

Hey, btw i think i found another reason why did i choose being single for my whole lifetime before married. Its because i can say proudly to my husband “ you are my first, and would be my very last luv” :)

Sweetest Luv

Sweetest Luv - Robin Thicke

oooohhh
oh babe
oohh

Why do people smile when no one’s smiling?
Its coz their thinking of someone they’re loving
Keep on believing we are meant to me and
Nothing’s stopping you and me from going to heaven
Sweetest love

I got the sweetest love there ain’t nothing sweeter
I got the sweetest love ain’t nothing beat it
There ain’t nothing sweeter

Now we're clever is about to inch just one ladder
It gets better every second we’re together
Oooh baby it feels so right
A new beginning starts tonight
The reason for when it’s on
Is because of you and me and
Sweetest love

Finally I can’t believe
Coz you and me, you’re my sweetest love

I got the sweetest love there ain’t nothing sweeter
I got the sweetest love ain’t nothing beat it
There ain’t nothing sweeter

Come on now, I got the sweetest love there ain’t nothing sweeter
I got the sweetest love can’t nothing beat it
There ain’t nothing sweeter oh yeah

Now I got that feeling in my gut
Now I need your fire in my life
Now I wanna give you love so much
And I keep on feeling my sweet, my sweet
Sweetest love

I can’t believe that you and me, we gotta be
You’re my sweetest love

I got the sweetest love there ain’t nothing sweeter
I got the sweetest love can’t nothing beat it
There ain’t nothing sweeter

Come on now, I got the sweeter love there ain’t nothing sweeter
I got the sweetest love can’t nothing beat it
There ain’t nothing sweeter ooohh

I got the sweetest love there ain’t nothing sweeter
I got the sweetest love can’t nothing beat it
There ain’t nothing sweeter ooohh

I got the sweetest love ain’t nothing be sweeter
I got the sweetest love can’t nothing beat it
There ain’t nothing sweeter

Sweetest love
I can’t believe, you and me, we gotta be
Oh my sweetest love


*sukaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa banget sama lagu ini* :)

Twitter

Hehehe..gr2 dipaksa sm cukiwati istikomah, jadilah meta mulai mengaktifkan kembali account twitter yg sbenernya dah lama dibuat.

silahkan berkunjung..

www.twitter.com/metahanindita

Good day tweeps!;;)

Kiri Kanan?

Alkisah*halah*suatu hari, meta dengan terkantuk2 berangkat siaran di radio tercintah Dj FM. Scara mnurut jadwal, suara meta diharuskan udah terdengar di telinga paramuda jam 4 teng, meta mst brangkat dr rumah jam stengah 4, yang berarti pula meta mst bangun tidur pagiii skali. Abis siaran biasanya lanjut sekolah sih, jadi harus udah mandi, dan siap berangkat sekolah kelar siaran.

SIaran hari itu ampir sama ky siaran2 hari sebelumnya, standardlah.. I always enjoy my show anyway;)

Seperti biasa juga, MD radio tcintah, Dio Alisyahbana Mahmudah Mudhofur Abdul Ghani udah mnampakkan batang hidungnya yang mungil itu jam stengah5. Cuma yang ga biasa, klo kmaren2 dia cuma nongol bentar sambil ngomong yg ga penting *wekekekek maaaaap ya diooooo*, nah kali ini dia masuk ke studio rada lamaan.

Ga ada angin ga ada ujan, tiba2 sang MD ini ketawa ngakak sambil nunjuk ke bawah. Meta yang lagi konsen belajar (mau ujian jeh!) pas waktunya lagu, jadi bingung sendiri. Meta pikir, kasian banget ya Dio ini, udah pagi2 buta nongol di kantor, mungkin masih teler makanya ga ada apa2 kok ketawa sendiri.

Meta bolak/i nanya " Dio, ari maneh teh kunaon?" (Percakapan terjadi dalam bahasa Sunda karena Dio juga orang Sunda).

Tapi Dio ga jawab2, malah tambah keras ketawanya sambil nunjuk ke bawah.

Meta pnasaran, ada apa si di bawah di arah yang ditunjuk DIo. Di deket keset, ada berberapa sepatu yang berkumpul. Well,nothing weird yet funny.

Apaan sih ni orang, Meta pikir.

Stelah beberapa lama, Dio udah bisa nahan ktawa, dia nanya dgn santainya ke Meta, "Met, ini sepatu kamu kan ya?"

"Ho oh. Ada yang lucu emang?"

Trus Dio ktawa lagi. Heran deh Meta. Ditanya bgitu bukannya jawab, dio malah kluar studio sambil -tetep- ngakak.

Karena ga mnemukan kejanggalan apa2, meta cuek aja lanjut siaran. Stelah slesai, giliran Dio yang siaran dan masuk studio (lagi).

Meta yang mau ujian, buru2 kluar studio, pake spatu dan stelah pamitan bergegas masuk mobil diiringi ktawa ala mak lampirnya dio.

Baru deket mobil, meta baru sadar. Jreeeeeeng, ternyata spatu yang meta pake bedaaa sodara2. Sama sih warnanya sama2 item, tapi modelnya beda. Yang bikin aneh knapa meta ga ngerasa, 2-2nya sama2 sepatu kiri hahahahahaha. Yang lebih aneh lagi, 2-2nya punya ktinggian yang beda. Sepatu pertama teplek ala ballerina tanpa hak, yang satunya ada hak seitar 3cman. Hahahahahahhahaha pantes aja dio sampe ngakak ga brenti2.

Untunglah mobil meta udah ky lemari jalan, ganti spatu laen, langsung cabut ke rumah sakit buat ujian, dan spanjang ujian ngakak2 sndiri keinget pristiwa pagi.

Yaaahh, maklum deh, meta kan berangkat siaran jam stengah 4 pagi, masih gelap gulita:p
*pembenaran* huahahahahahahhaa.

Welcoming 2010

Resolutions 2009
1. Being dicipline in all of plans ive made, including be punctual in praying
time*wink2*
2. Being more patient –in everythin-:p
3. Startin life as pediatric’s resident, a good one i supposed;;)
4. Tryin to eat meat –hell yeah!wekekekek-
5. Tryin to say no *in some cases*
6. Tryin to ignore some people and pointless gossips*sigh*
7. Keepin my radio and tv show in –still- 1st places
8. Being muuuch better in everythin, shortly

Well, these are my resolutions in 2009. A year ago, i made these points several hours to new year. 2008 was really sucks for me. I got many of my plans screwed. I failed entering my new school, i cancelled my plan to go to Mecca –and only 3 days before the day-, my parents got heart operations –yup, both of them-, i had a big problem with my bestfriends, my book’s script had been returned because the publisher wanted me to change my writing style –why didnt they say it from the beginning?-, and bla bla bla.. all the problems seemed luv me very much at the time. I resigned from one national TV station that had already placed me in their first line anchor because i had to go to school which at last cancelled it -yeah so id gone for nothin-. I skipped my scholarship to Spain because of the same reason too. The worst thing , i felt very useless for everyone, everythin, everywhere. I was really like a big loser:p

I made the resolution not because i was sure i could change my life with it. To be honest, i made it just because my radio talkshow. One day in 2009, the topic was about it, and i had to make it too, so there you gooo..
When my editor called me this morning remindin to make a resolution, i opened up my files in my laptop and find this. Surprise surprise.. although i didnt expect much last year when i made the resolution, i guess i made it happened, and i have also some bonuses included:p

I didnt remember the resolution, i just live my life as good as i could. And, you know what, i have so many things happened in 2009:)

-Finally- i really could live my life as pediatric’s resident. I did go to Mecca, My book was released –and being a best seller, proudly;). My radio and TV show still as their first rates, my parents are so well thank God, and im still trying to be punctual in praying time, also trying to be more patient. But i guess im already more patient than i was before;;) i could even say no to my friends;;)

Did i say bonuses?;;) Yes, im married this year;;) Its kinda weird for most people i know, since i dont take relationship as my primary urge-things hehehe. Trust me, its weird for me too:p i didnt plan to be married this year, but well, who knows God’s plan?:)

I could say that the highest achievement for myself this year is being married to someone i really luv:) -please just dont ask the details, its off the record you know hehehehe-. And its not on my last year resolutions, to be noted. There’s nothin wrong in makin resolutions, i didnt say its bad right? But for me, the most important thing is just let your life flow, human could plan, but in the end, God always has a better plan for us. Just enjoy your life, whatever it goes now;)

My resolution in next year? Hmphh.. i think i would just live my life to the fullest, no matter whether its gonna fit some resolutions i made or not, who cares?:p
Hopefully,next year i could be a better moslem, a better wife*wink2*, a better sister, a better daughter, a better friend, a better bestfriend, a better student, a better worker, and generally to end this, a better person

Have yourself a happy new year everyone!;)